Daily Prompt: Conversant with Safety & the Value of Human Life

Will try 2 B short & 2 the point.****foul language warning****4 the faint of heart.

The first thing I thought following our latest of mass murder in a school.  Why the fuck is there still no security for our schools or places of worship?  These are the most precious & easily targeted places for some weak-minded loser filled with hate to take out his anger as he was taught to do by our mainstream entertainment industry.  That coupled with the type of coverage the Mainstream news media gives these cowards is even more incentive to be famous!  Everyone wants to be famous, don’t they?  Movies make evil people look like feared, indestructible bad asses when in truth they are weak, sick cowardly dumb asses not worth the powder to blow them to hell.

It’s obvious these fools have no empathy or compassion.  They’ve never heard of the Golden Rule & you can thank the demonic atheists working feverishly to remove the Word of God from every place their little cloven hooves can take them as well as banning all prayer from schools, because U know how bad that used to be for us.  No kids were ever shot back then & they just couldn’t stand it.

The hypocrisy of America is impossible for me to stomach.  Some mainstream media & celebrities make me physically ill with anger at the lies, the open hatred & the evil agendas they promote while protecting folks far more dangerous than those they openly condemn.  The liberal media’s constant promoting of mass murder to the most innocent in our abortion clinics while condemning the school shooting is beyond hypocritical.  They are more dangerous than any shooter having caused far more deaths with their rhetoric & propaganda but the babies are not killed with guns.

Guns are the key issue with a large faction of this government that is wishing for global control one day very soon.   They know exactly what they intend to impose on the public & what a normal reaction would be.  You cannot enslave people who’s very country is based on a belief in human rights & freedom, guns or no guns.

Many facts are coming to light that will not bode well for the FBI & other state & local government areas regarding this latest shooting from the way it was handled during the actual incident to the many previous warnings that were ignored.  Why would this be ignored?  Would our government give orders to allow innocent school children to be murdered as a further ploy for disarming the public?  They have no problem with the mass murder of the unborn so I’m sure this won’t cause many sleepless nights either.

If I were a parent with a child in public school they would be withdrawn until the school could promise their safety.  I would demand changes in all procedures including metal detectors & only certain points of entry with armed guards.  There is nothing hard or unreasonable about this scenario & we only have one faction to blame for our culture deteriorating to this level.  Liberalism.  It will eventually go down in history as the most dangerous insidious fascist group in the world.  Remember, during the time of the Nazi’s & the slave owners when they had the voice, they insisted they were the good guys.

No child left behind my ass!

 

 

Daily Prompt: Giggles!

Many years ago we were sitting in church with our friends during the Christmas season.  It was a special evening program for all ages and our oldest son, at the time about 8 years old,  was telling us that earlier that day the children had all made Christmas cards for the pastor of our very large church.

When the pastor came out he was holding a card in his hand at which our son said excitedly, “Hey, the pastor has my card!  I can tell by the drawing I did on the back of it!”  We were to discover our pastor had decided to start the evening service with a little humor.  He advised the congregation that the children had all given him Christmas cards after morning service and he was hoping that they would enjoy one card in particular.  None of us had any idea what he had written, so he began:

“Roses are red, violets are blue, it’s snowing outside and in here too!”

To which there were gales of laughter.  At the time I sort of laughed but was more mortified than amused.  My friend sitting right next to me could not stop giggling for the longest time.  Even when the service started, I could see her body shaking in the laughter she kept trying to stifle, then I started giggling as well.  We were both trying to keep our composure while the sermon was being preached.  We kept setting each other off.  I don’t remember when we finally managed to get it together and put our attention back on God!  After the evening program I tried to explain to my confused son why everyone had such a good laugh at his expense.

Daily Prompt: HELP!

I have pretty much been on my own when I’m sick.  I know to keep certain things on hand “just in case.”  You know, sick food.  I never take any over the counter meds for colds or flu.  Just some chicken soup, Jewish penicillin, bread for toast and tea.  People from dysfunctional homes are usually on their own in these cases, even as children.

This was about the last time I had help when I was seriously ill.  It was Christmas time 1958, I was seven, and I had just lost my dear Aunt Ruth.  I sometimes wonder if I became deathly ill after she died so I could join her in heaven.  I was just getting over Scarlet Fever and was still so ill I didn’t even care it was Christmas time, even though it was my favorite time of year.  I can still remember the torturous feeling of being picked up, carried and being propped in a chair, suffering and delirious with fever but my parents insisted I should be with the rest of the family whether I wanted to be there or not and with no thought to the other children getting it.  They just told them to “stay away from me.”  From this picture, I don’t think they had to be told.

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Me looking more like Dracula’s daughter than a child at Christmas.

I believe this act actually saved my life because I could feel I was trying to slip away from this world.  Anyone who’s ever been seriously ill knows what I’m speaking of.  I’ve had major surgeries and very ill at other times, even to the point of hospitalization, but this was something different.  This was a feeling of complete detachment and readying of my spirit to go home.

Civilizations Need to be Civilized

The only way humans become civilized is the same we have domesticated our pets.  We all need proper training.  Much like bad pets sorely in need of obedience training, many people are completely lacking in important manners and social skills that will enable them to survive in the world.  That may even save some of their lives!

Through many years of learning the hard way I’m sure, man has learned what is appropriate and not acceptable by their fellow planet dwellers.  During the swinging 60’s the media became the mouthpiece for selfish clowns that declared “God is dead” and “if it feels good, do it!”  The fact that these flakes were either higher than kites or just rebelling against their years of strict parenting meant nothing to most people because as long as attractive people that dress nicely and speak in well modulated voices say something, they believe it.

Parents loved hearing that little Johnny no longer needed to be disciplined because it might cramp his style or hurt his psyche.  Heaven forbid he hear the word no and be scarred for life!  Who wouldn’t want to believe the clones on TV?  Makes your life easier, you don’t have to care what your children are doing or fight with them anymore.  Who cares if they burn down the house or start killing others when they get a little older?

We all should!

We are all animals and for any animal to get along with others and survive, certain skills must be learned.  The most important of which used to be taught in the home with other siblings or when starting school and that is sharing.  Because only children are more common now, the sharing part is a little trickier than with those that have had to share mom’s love or a room with someone growing up.  The fact remains, conscientious parents do care what their children’s future will be and intelligent ones realize just how important social skills are.

Sadly, the very people that need to learn these skills are usually the last ones that do.  This makes life unpleasant to downright dangerous for everyone.  Neglected children are some of the most angry and disturbed and for the fact that they are “neglected” it means that no one is teaching them anything that will help them in their struggles to fit into an already cruel world.  It’s much easier on a child to fit into a crazy, evil world if they’ve known security and love since birth.  Those that do not feel wanted or loved will treat everyone that slights them later with severe anger because it stirs up the wounds they carry from their painful childhood.  That’s why some can handle a job with a crazy boss much better than others.  No baggage regarding crazy, so they don’t take the abuse or slights personally.

Manners are so important to getting along with others and being liked, but if someone already knows there is not love for them in the world, they have given up on trying to please or placate others.  To them it’s more of an unrealistic expectation to think that others that don’t even like them should expect a smile or kind word from them.  It’s fake to them and it is, make no mistake.

Manners are very fake, but very necessary to making others feel important and showing that you do care.  As artificial as saying please and thank you are, they make others feel as if you are acknowledging them as someone worth respecting.  Neglect is not respect.  Abuse is not fun, but neglect is like saying “you are dead to me” and that’s actually worse.

The more people are neglected, the further they disconnect from the feelings of others, genuinely.  Then when a tragedy occurs many that were raised with somewhat normal parents will ask “why?”  This is why!  These are the people that have no idea what compassion is and never even learned to how fake it.  They are beyond trying to “impress” others and have given up trying, they cannot relate to others.  Then if someone gets on their last twisted nerve, it doesn’t end well.

Mothers, love your children and teach them well while you still can!

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Happy Father’s Day, Is It?

Today some of you have the privilege of showing your dad just how much he is loved and appreciated.

Others have the reminder of just how much they miss him, especially at this time of year.

Then there are the ones like me.  The ones who either never had a father or were abandoned by him when they needed him the most.

I never spoke about my father to others.  Many years ago my co-workers were talking about what they were planning for their fathers on father’s day, some remarking how they had previously lost their father.  I was the only one not saying anything.  I think because of this one of them asked me if my father was still alive and the conversation went a little like this:

“Is your dad still alive?”

  “I don’t know.”

  “What do you mean you don’t know?”

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Dad and me in happier times.

  “My dad took off when I was a teen and we never heard from or about him ever again.”

  “Oh.  That must feel really weird not to even know where you dad is or if he’s even alive.”

  “Yeah.”

I think that was the only time anyone ever asked me about my dad or that I spoke about him to others.

If my dad were living, he would be 80 years old.  He ran off with another woman purportedly 8 years his senior when I was a senior in high school.  My mother was 3 years his senior, so there appears to be a pattern.  He had six children between the ages of seventeen and one at the time.  My father was 35 years old when he left and my mother was swearing this other, older woman was pregnant with his child.  We were told about our half-brother by this other woman after my dad left her as well years later.

I didn’t tell my co-workers the entire truth because it was not anyone’s business and I was already getting the pity eyes just because he took off in the first place.  I had heard he was still alive approximately 12 years after he left.  I was married with two children of my own at the time.  Apparently someone was investigating my father for some unsavory business in the southern states.  That’s when some chickens really came home to roost as they say and which actually brought about the end of my marriage for various reasons that I may muse about in some other future posts.

To those of you who have a great dad who was always there for you, please let him know how much you love and appreciate him for this, and not just today.  There are many who don’t appreciate their fathers for petty, small-minded reasons.  I feel sorry for those people and would gladly trade places with them.  No one is perfect and this is the time to celebrate having a real dad with faults and everything.

 

#Bring Back Our Girls!

Sounds good, doesn’t it?  Maybe to most of you.

Sounds completely insane to me.

Do you think that completely evil, soulless people care what you think or say?

Of course not.

This is the very reason that Jesus told the people that loved him to keep His commandment of love.  He said to spread this gospel of peace and love to all corners of the world.

The liberals have made it their life’s mission to take the very Words of God out of our public buildings, take prayer out of school and some of the ignorant say “God is dead,” like that can happen.  They have rejected and mocked the Words of Christ, yet they are so insane as to demand that “devils” now obey God’s law.  The liberals don’t even do this.  They may not kidnap girls en masse but to coddle bad behavior and lack of self-control in others does not bring out anyone’s best.  Weak people with no faith do not have the power to command evil to bend. Remember that.

Jesus had power over evil spirits and spoke of the house well swept.  People that do not fill their hearts with love and the Word risk it being filled with something else less wholesome.  Sometimes worse than network TV with its bad examples and evil acts.

Shame on anyone who can find fault with those who teach love, heal and help others.  Shame on those who mock and break commandments thinking they are better than God.  Shame on the liberals of Christ’s time called Pharisees who tried to appear helpful and holy and were anything but.

How unfair is it not to warn others of the impending doom their actions may bring to themselves once their time here on earth comes to an end.  There actually is a method to the supposed madness some have in their faith.

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Cause & Effect: Teach Your Children Well

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I need to ask you parents something.  Would you rather be right or see your child fit in?

Would you be willing to send your child to school with a bull’s-eye on his or her back just to prove a point?  Most men would have had a fit if their son wanted to bring something like that to school at that age but leave it to mom to think it’s A-OK to love My Little Pony!  Then there are the “Bronies.”

People definitely should not be bullied into anything, but we all know this is how most things are run in the world.  We are all bullied to a certain extent to perform in school and work, to obey laws and to pay our tax.  If we didn’t fear some kind of punishment or humiliation from our behavior, the human race could fast turn into soulless, purposeless monsters.  Much like some are now.

Most of us learned cause and effect when we were growing up.  It’s a sign of an intelligent mind.  A mind that would like to survive because it figured out if I do this, then that may happen.  This is how we learn what we should or shouldn’t be doing because it provokes certain responses from others.  You then need to decide should you continue your actions, even if you are in the right or are you being demeaned by others because you are disgusting them.  Sometimes bullies have a point when they make fun of those that appear to want to be made fun of.  Nasty people will find any reason to attack those they think are weak and no one has to antagonize them.

If someone appears hostile or menacing an intelligent person thinks twice before provoking those they know won’t hesitate to abuse in some way.  It’s like an openly gay guy deciding to knowingly go into a red neck bar in the Bible belt.  That’s a go at your own risk type of deal.  Everyone knows you should be able to have the freedom to do what you want, within reason, but many would love to bully that man due to the fact that they would think he should know better and is probably trying to antagonize them.

That is another reason that people are abused by others.  Nothing makes some people madder than when they feel they are being played by someone.  Being taunted in some way.  I don’t really feel sorry for people that know they offend others and choose to do it anyway only to cry about it later.  Sort of like a kid dumb enough to taunt a classmate with “Nah nah nah nah nah” then cry when they get beat up.

There are some that are offended by anyone just looking at them, but those people don’t count.  That kind of evil usually comes to no good like the Detroit man who killed a teen for giving him a “look” he didn’t like and in turn also caused the accidental shooting death of the accomplice’s seven-year old daughter.  Ironic that this accomplice was the one that gave him the gun to shoot someone else’s child.

Musings about Marriage

…that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother , and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?…    Matthew 19: 4-5

Gay marriage is a farce.  Two men cannot have sex, neither can two women, they can just fool around and not procreate.  This is perverted  behavior and knowing people’s nature, I am sure some choose a gay lifestyle to be rebellious much like many choose other lifestyles.  Then the liberal media has chosen to put a healthy rational spin on a deviant lifestyle choice and expects everyone to fall for it.  I am a person too and as such have “urges” like everyone.  Do we all act on our urges?  Heck no!  Do little children or spoiled brats, more often.  Mature people act in a responsible manner and in a way that is civilized.  There is something to be said about living a life of good character and yes, sacrifice.  I’m sure there are people with gay tendencies living straight lives because they are good people and not selfish or self-absorbed as I see militant gays.  This is my take on the gay community now, with its never-ending protests and bullying of others who do not accept their propaganda, agendas and lifestyle.  Those parades were only the beginning and meant to offend.  It worked and I now feel differently then I once did about the homosexual community.  It’s one thing if you are being bullied or feel put upon and you have a legitimate point to put across to others, there are acceptable ways to do this.  It is a very different matter to have an “in your face” behavior and actions that others will take as provocative and offensive.  If the straights behaved that way to the gay community, they would be called haters and this is exactly how I view militant gays, as hater bullies.

I have nothing against homosexual people and don’t have any reason to know who is gay unless I am looking for a relationship that goes beyond friendship.  I am personally disgusted when people have to wear their sexuality as a badge of some kind.  People never acted like this years ago and the main reason was it is inappropriate and no one cares.  As an intelligent person, I know what makes people tick and like most, I can spot bad behavior, bad judgment, etc, a mile away.  Gay marriage will ruin this nation and the world.  People owe it to one another to behave in a rational, acceptable manner.  People who don’t agree are the same ones that believe in letting it all hang out, if it feels good do it, etc.  Childish and offensive.  If you loved your brother, would you openly offend like this?  I think not.  I especially do not agree with all the fake two mommies and two daddies of so many children that will be used as pawns in whatever type of family set up that would be established.  It shows ignorance and bad judgment to think it’s OK to bring a child fraudulently into a situation where naturally none could be created. 

Children are not a commodity to be bought and sold on selfish whims to make others lives complete when it defies logic and nature.  Marriage was established for protection of women and children, for a family line to exist and be carried on.  Two men and two woman should love each other as nature and God intended, as friends, not lovers because same-sex cannot have sex with one another, hence the marriages will never truly be able to be consummated.  The fact that militant gays are wasting so much time, energy, money and other people’s time on such a farce shows me how ignorant or evil they really are.  Just because you can do something, does not mean you should do it.  If gay marriage were allowed, it would take time, but time would prove me correct in the assumption that even more legal complications and problems will occur with women and children bearing the brunt of most of it.  I believe that this kind of mindset will keep insisting on even more abominations be accepted as the norm as long as they scream loud enough and have the funding.  Adults should be able to live how they wish and marry in their own hearts as long as they are not hurting others.  Militant gays have been hurting others for a while and I am starting to believe that their demands will never be satisfied no matter what they are allowed to do.

Motherly Love or Lack Thereof

The other day I was thinking about how so many children are not being raised properly anymore.  Some are unrealistically spoiled and coddled.  Some have manic mothers forcing them to be busy all the time, joining all kinds of activities trying to achieve what they feel they missed in life through their children.  Some don’t have any motherly influence, even though they do live with them, and look to the TV for a familiar face.  The mothers are gone most of the time working sometimes through no fault of their own.  Others want to have a higher standard of living.  They want to be the first one there and last one to leave because they care and because they know if they don’t they may be passed over for a promotion or that unpleasant boss will find yet another reason to give a negative recordation in their review.

Raising a child is one of the most important responsibilities that any woman will ever have.  Way more important then any job, even that of the president of any country.  Women are responsible for not only bringing lives into the world, but how these little people are molded and formed as human beings.  How they are prepared to fit into society and thrive, not just survive.  The worst thing you can do to a child is abuse or neglect them and then expect them to be a success in their life.  Women do this for a number of reasons.  They are alone, struggling and angry and the child is the closest one to them.  These are the children with no fathers or family support or even ones that once had a father who later walks out because he was without substance. The mom is immature and again angry at her life choices, angry that she cannot provide for this very loud and needy little person who cannot defend itself.  There are mothers that are mentally ill or substance abusers and therefore are not able to make good or safe choices for any child.    Then I think about the aborted ones and wonder why.

I started wondering what children think about “pro-choice.”  We adults talk about pro-life and pro-choice, which translated to the truth is pro-life and pro-death.  These are the choices so don’t sugar coat reality and don’t lie about the truth.  That is another blog, but I wondered what the children think.  Children see and hear a lot more than they let on and I was wondering what their take was.  To me this a form of age discrimination and I think that baby had poor representation during Roe v Wade but exactly what does pro-choice look like to children?  What does it say to children about what some mothers think of them?  They need to be aware that sometimes there is no choice in the matter between saving the baby or the mother.  Some mothers would want the baby saved before themselves and some women would save themselves and need to.  Children should have things explained to them fully if they ask.  No woman should ever be forced to carry and nurture a baby if someone attacked them and no child should ever have to carry another child in their womb because someone molested them.  That being said, I am not in favor of abortion as birth control.

Women have the power and need to know this.  They need to stay out of harms way as much as possible and not trust the untrustworthy, stay sober and need to respect themselves as well as any future children by giving them a good chance in life.  Making sure they use good birth control, even if it’s saying no, unless that man marries them and they know they have a decent, trustworthy father for their children.  Women need to know who they are first, and know that they are not who some abusive and neglectful parent told them they were or weren’t.  They are a child of God and deserve a good life with a man who will love them forever, unconditionally.  Not waste any time with some horny for the moment, can’t keep a job or stay straight boy who is only around for one thing.  I still remember the sickening insincere smiling faces of the charmers hanging around hoping for a freebie from me or any girl.  Lust is not love, it is the farthest thing from it but it clouds the senses to further the species.  Young men who treat women like this are beyond disrespectful but we are animals.  We are supposed to be civilized and know the difference between lust and love and be able to reason out our future plans, not just act on every impulse we have.  God help us as a people if we all did that.  All children deserve to be wanted whether they were planned for or not.  It’s called doing the right thing, not doing things because they are easy or fun for us like all the “living your bliss” folks would have you believe.  Every act of kindness is usually an act of sacrifice from someone with love in their hearts.  Mothers, love your children.

Important Things to Think About

  1. Who are you who do not pray for the strength that God will give you?

  2. Who are you that do not love yourselves?

  3. Your children are an extension of your hopes and your frailties.

  4. If you do not show them mercy, then you have no mercy for yourself.

  5. This is why the spiritual fact is the way you treat others is the way you perceive and show your own worth to the world.

  6. This is why as you show mercy, so shall you be shown mercy and at the very least your bad behavior shows how you feel about yourself.

  7. At the worst, it can cause you to become uncivilized, even worse than an animal, a monster.

  8. Forgive yourself for being human, for being less than perfect.

  9. Forgive those that made you feel bad or small because they expected something from you that was not humanly possible.  The ones that expected from you what they themselves were lacking simply because it is not possible to be perfect.

  10. Rid yourself of the delusion that life is a contest or a test.  Life is life and is to be lived in the moment at the pace you were created to live it.

More important things to think about later.