Musings about Marriage

…that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother , and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?…    Matthew 19: 4-5

Gay marriage is a farce.  Two men cannot have sex, neither can two women, they can just fool around and not procreate.  This is perverted  behavior and knowing people’s nature, I am sure some choose a gay lifestyle to be rebellious much like many choose other lifestyles.  Then the liberal media has chosen to put a healthy rational spin on a deviant lifestyle choice and expects everyone to fall for it.  I am a person too and as such have “urges” like everyone.  Do we all act on our urges?  Heck no!  Do little children or spoiled brats, more often.  Mature people act in a responsible manner and in a way that is civilized.  There is something to be said about living a life of good character and yes, sacrifice.  I’m sure there are people with gay tendencies living straight lives because they are good people and not selfish or self-absorbed as I see militant gays.  This is my take on the gay community now, with its never-ending protests and bullying of others who do not accept their propaganda, agendas and lifestyle.  Those parades were only the beginning and meant to offend.  It worked and I now feel differently then I once did about the homosexual community.  It’s one thing if you are being bullied or feel put upon and you have a legitimate point to put across to others, there are acceptable ways to do this.  It is a very different matter to have an “in your face” behavior and actions that others will take as provocative and offensive.  If the straights behaved that way to the gay community, they would be called haters and this is exactly how I view militant gays, as hater bullies.

I have nothing against homosexual people and don’t have any reason to know who is gay unless I am looking for a relationship that goes beyond friendship.  I am personally disgusted when people have to wear their sexuality as a badge of some kind.  People never acted like this years ago and the main reason was it is inappropriate and no one cares.  As an intelligent person, I know what makes people tick and like most, I can spot bad behavior, bad judgment, etc, a mile away.  Gay marriage will ruin this nation and the world.  People owe it to one another to behave in a rational, acceptable manner.  People who don’t agree are the same ones that believe in letting it all hang out, if it feels good do it, etc.  Childish and offensive.  If you loved your brother, would you openly offend like this?  I think not.  I especially do not agree with all the fake two mommies and two daddies of so many children that will be used as pawns in whatever type of family set up that would be established.  It shows ignorance and bad judgment to think it’s OK to bring a child fraudulently into a situation where naturally none could be created. 

Children are not a commodity to be bought and sold on selfish whims to make others lives complete when it defies logic and nature.  Marriage was established for protection of women and children, for a family line to exist and be carried on.  Two men and two woman should love each other as nature and God intended, as friends, not lovers because same-sex cannot have sex with one another, hence the marriages will never truly be able to be consummated.  The fact that militant gays are wasting so much time, energy, money and other people’s time on such a farce shows me how ignorant or evil they really are.  Just because you can do something, does not mean you should do it.  If gay marriage were allowed, it would take time, but time would prove me correct in the assumption that even more legal complications and problems will occur with women and children bearing the brunt of most of it.  I believe that this kind of mindset will keep insisting on even more abominations be accepted as the norm as long as they scream loud enough and have the funding.  Adults should be able to live how they wish and marry in their own hearts as long as they are not hurting others.  Militant gays have been hurting others for a while and I am starting to believe that their demands will never be satisfied no matter what they are allowed to do.

Does Detroit Stand a Chance?

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Another bad appointment. I thought it was bad enough when President Obama appointed Timothy Geithner while I was working for the collection area of the Internal Revenue Service. I had to interview and collect information from taxpayers attempting to resolve their tax problems with the IRS and when they caught wind that the President’s appointee as U S Secretary of the Treasury owed some back taxes some tried to use this in their defense that if my boss didn’t have to pay, why should they? Very cute, amusing and all that and very wrong for the fact that if any of the IRS employees (the peons) did not pay tax promptly, they would lose their jobs.

It has just come to light that the Emergency Financial Manager that Governor Rick Snyder appointed to help save Detroit’s finances, did not properly take accurate care of his own finances in the recent past.  As an employee of the collection area of the IRS, I know how many notices are sent to the taxpayers and just how hard they try to contact them before any liens or levies are ever issued.  The liens were supposedly issued by the state of Maryland and I don’t know what their criterion is for placing liens, but the fact that he claims to not be aware of it cannot be true.  Is he lying?  Probably, but who can prove otherwise?  It appears that our business culture has become lousy with people who would not recognize honor or decency if it sat on their head and most couldn’t even give the correct definition of good business ethics. 

I don’t just fear for the future of Detroit, but all our cities and our country in general.  If it keeps up at this rate, there will be all out civil war in the streets between the thugs in office trying to appear legit and the thugs in the street because they are stepping into their turf.  It might be all the recent confusion brought about by the onslaught of liberal thinking.  They love the sin as well as the sinner.  They are confused for the fact that you are supposed to love the sinner and hate the sin.  You are supposed to encourage your brother to “go and sin no more.”  Most of them say “what the hey, we are all only human, if it feels good do it, and I must be born this way.”  What a cop-out and what a sick way to twist a society.  The longer this continues the more evident will be the destruction of these wrong mindsets, so give them enough rope…

The Continuing Saga of Kwame Kilpatrick

The Verdict came in today with twenty-four convictions against the former Mayor of Detroit out of the thirty counts or charges.  Another day of shame for Detroit and even more shameful for anyone associated with the man. 

I met Kwame years ago when, as the mayor, he stopped by for a speaking engagement in our Detroit office.  I was very impressed by his charisma and charm and this man truly appeared larger than life in person.  It helps me to understand why so many people went along with him.  It is so sad to see an intelligent person with so much potential get overrun by his own ego and poor judgement.  Did he always have mal intent upon taking office?  I know he liked to play the system from the start by the way he used funds illegally for his family upon taking office.  There was always some kind of impropriety going on.  People that feel destined to greatness often have egos that are completely overblown, causing them to use poor judgement and think they are entitled to whatever it is they want for the moment. 

This is the reason man lives by laws.  They simply cannot curb their ego and some will stop at nothing to get what they want.  Those are dangerous people.  The people that never learned the word “no.”  Kwame’s story is proof positive that you can’t always live your dream, especially when it is not realistic or fair to others and especially when it hurts the ones you are supposed to love. 

God bless and keep his children and I pray that they learn from their father’s mistakes.