Most I refused to listen to. Many of us have that problem because you know we all think we know better that anyone else. Sometimes we ignore suggestions because we don’t want to stop what we are doing or are too lazy to start.
We do know ourselves better and we do have “feelings” about things, whether these feelings make any sense to anyone else or are even the best thing for us…
My mother-in-law didn’t want me to smoke in her home, back in the 1970’s. I thought she was rude until I did stop a couple of years later when I became pregnant with my first child.
I then saw her “intrusive” suggestion in a completely different light.